Honestly – its not rocket science, but most of the time I fail to show my wife love in the way that she receives it best.
Leslie’s love language is “acts of service.” She feels most loved when I am doing things (especially around the house) to serve her. Today while she was at work I worked on cleaning the house. I’ve vacuumed, cleaned the kitchen & stove, made the bed, cleaned the toilets, and put away random stuff around the house.
The key to making her feel loved this way is that I’ve done all of this without being asked and with a good attitude. I simply want her to feel love through my actions.
I don’t understand why I resist this most of the time. The work is really not that hard and the reward is HUGE! In my heart I am desperate to show Leslie love, but my actions usually don’t show that.
I need forgiveness for the times that I have a bad attitude or neglect to serve the person that I love more than anyone. However today I take pride in showing my wife that I love her.
How do you show your spouse that you love them?
